if you like living in the twilight zone then its the place for you ...
actually my take on it from a single mans perpective:
its not really like living in HK (a positive for me as its an escape from the over population, high rise intensity )
its quite and peaceful (and the ferrys only 25 mins into the night life
its almost obligatory to own a dog, or a child (in fact mostly both) shoosh i lost my dog!!!
relatively cheap rent in comparison to HK island which is better value
its does take an hour to get to work but its worth it, altho i get a bus from the pier missing out the MTR squeeze -your hubby won't get that benefit
everything runs to clockwork .. buses, ferry's by eck... it is the twilight zone
nice new restaurants have opened up by the sea. but not much option for shopping (only park n shop but it is adequately stocked - blimey they even have waitrose sausages)
kids running round the plaza screaming

when you got : a hangover can be a bit destabalizing ..

but strangely enough they don't populate the beach that much .. i fins my trusty catapult soon silence a few of em . maybe someone will buy me taser gun for me birthday
not really HK culturalised so you dont get to immerse yourself into the experience
so its a balance really ... i like the peaceful escape it offers so i'd recommned it as i would stanley buts that more expensive