Give me a break guys.. if someone wants a maid and wants to pay for it, let the market forces take control and let people make their choices both as employers and employees.
There is really no need and this is not really the place to discuss the moralities of hiring maids, the topic was all about expenses in Hong Kong. Lets not turn this into an attack on him.
It is fairly evident that someone who is taking into consideration ESF fees has kids and hence having a helper is often a good plus.
Paul, when you bring up the issue of how many people have maids / helpers at home. I'd say most Asian expatriates do have helpers back in their countries due to large unskilled labour pools.
It is usually the western folks who tend to get into the whole "wow" thing when they come to Asia and see what is available and the costs involved.