Love to help you on this Bender, but as its not an authentic Italian provinicial recipe and being a vietnamese locality improvisation, I'd say on the road is the closest so far.
As to Dean Tsai's recipe, you are going to need to pony up a bit more info or atleast display some photo's of said dish before many of us can offer advice. It would help to know what prvence of China the recipe originates from.
Also, while we are on the subject of food, and Chinese families, do es your wifes familiy only cook Chinese food, or do they add other international cuisines to their repitoire ?
Being fed the same style of food over and over, day in day out would do my head in, and thankfully my wifes familiy here, originally from Shanghai, travelled enough to be exposed to the wonders of food diversity. My wifes father was a cook in the merchant navy, and he was pretty amazing with whatever you wanted to nominate. Of course they cooked many authentic Chinese dishes from all over China, but they were not afraid to cook a perfect creme Brulee etc or a sponge cake or whatever......
If you want to impress your wifes family, I'd suggest you cook something that is very simple, but something your family will eat, because its pretty difficult to mess up, even for a round eye.
Yang Zhou Chai Farn, being Australian, you'd be more familiar with its westernised combination special fried rice name.
If you can locate my photo folder on Geoxpat, I have a food cooked at home folder, which has a step/stage by step/stage photo recipe of a perfect Yang Zhou Chai Farn. If you cant locate it, I will post a geoexpat blog on it, and add it to the other two recipes I have uploaded already.
I even have a Dim Sim recipe, being from Melbourne you might even be motivated enough to give that a try...
http://www.geoexpat.com/forum/blog.php?b=150
Good Luck Dean Tzai, and try not to burn your wifes family home down in the process...
