Thanks for the advice guys.
I currently have a tourist visa and have done so since first arriving in mid 2005. I imagine this is why immigration stopped me at the airport.
Marriage has always been on the cards but my being questioned brought it forward...we do have proof of our relationship before arriving such as holiday photos, including families meeting, joint bank account statements and tenanacy agreemant and bills from the UK.
We are still just very nervous they may refuse as it is a registry wedding without family present and I have had two failed application - of course not dependants visas
It does sound like leaving is not going to make much difference though I may still do this before we give in the application. If I did do this would the application have to be done through me or my wife? And who do we set as the point of contact with immigration? Would it be me to prove I am outside of HK?
Thanks