[Tanu]

hi, im an Indian and my Gf is a filipina its 6yrs of online relationship no pbs.We were supposed to settle down once im done with this last yr of college Pb is my Gf is being moved to HK on a Domestic Help visa by her aunts,3 aunts stay there & she's supposed to stay in shifts with each one. then they plan to move her to Canada. She is not opposing bcoz they took care of her etc etc. once my Gf is in canada she's supposed to get 1 of her her aunt there.how is tat possible we both dont knw.
She is a graduate in Arts & has work experience also.
i have no pbs in getting her to India & she can also support family frm here, i have no pbs.
because of family pressure she'll be forced to move to HK
-- how do i get her back once i start workin ? is there a min period of work(commitment)
-- on what basis will she go to canada after a year as DH ?
-- in case tat happens how can i get her back & then she'l continue her further studies while im employed.

[jimbo]

Tanu

Don't take this personally but your thread seems to be me me me and have you actually asked what your gf wants long term?

[Tanu]

yes i know and i have asked her and her wish is to study further but financial constraints so had to start working pretty early, she loves teaching,she even tutors parttime and wishes to come here so that we can settle down. Its just tat shes not objecting because her aunts were the one who took care of her education so shes bound & feels she has to oblige without asking them anything.